How to Decide Where to Live: 10 Questions to Ask Before You Move

Tips for Buyers and Sellers Holly Burt June 27, 2025

How to Decide Where to Live: 10 Smart Questions to Ask Before You Move

Choosing where to live is one of the most personal — and impactful — decisions you'll ever make. Whether you're relocating to Florida or just moving across town, these 10 questions will help you choose the right community with confidence.


1. What Lifestyle Do You Want to Lead?

Do you crave beachside relaxation, urban buzz, or peaceful suburbia? The lifestyle you envision should drive your location choice — not the other way around.

Florida Tip: Jacksonville offers a mix of city convenience and coastal living, while Lakeland provides small-town charm with big growth potential.


2. How Important Is Your Daily Commute?

If you’ll be commuting, how far are you willing to drive (or sit in traffic)? Proximity to major highways, business districts, or transit can shape your day-to-day quality of life.


3. What Type of Climate Fits You Best?

Sure, Florida is famous for sunshine — but some areas are more humid, storm-prone, or breezy than others. Consider your weather preferences year-round, not just during vacation months.


4. Do You Prefer a Quiet or Social Neighborhood?

Some communities host block parties and bustling downtown events, while others prioritize privacy and peace. Touring neighborhoods at different times of day can give you a better sense of the vibe.


5. How Close Do You Want to Be to Family and Friends?

Staying close to loved ones might be a priority, or you may be seeking a fresh start. Either way, location affects how often you'll realistically connect with your circle.


6. What Kind of Housing Inventory Fits Your Needs?

Do you need a large backyard? A condo with low maintenance? New construction or historic charm? Not every area will offer the type of housing that aligns with your goals and budget.

7. What’s the Cost of Living?

Beyond the home price, consider taxes, insurance, utilities, and HOA fees. Some Florida cities are more budget-friendly than others, especially when it comes to property taxes and storm-related costs.


8. What Are the Schools Like?

Even if you don’t have kids, strong school districts can boost property values and resale potential. If you do have children, research local ratings and extracurricular offerings.


9. What Amenities Do You Want Nearby?

Think grocery stores, gyms, healthcare, parks, and entertainment. Your neighborhood should support your lifestyle with easy access to everyday essentials.


10. What Does the Future of the Area Look Like?

Is the community growing? Are new developments or businesses moving in? Local trends can impact both quality of life and long-term home value.


Ready to Find the Right Place to Call Home?

At BHGRE Lifestyles Realty, we help buyers not just find a house — but the right community to build their future. Whether you're relocating to Northeast or Central Florida or just exploring a new zip code, our agents are here to guide you every step of the way.

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Whether you're buying your first home, upgrading, downsizing, or investing, we're here to guide you with care, insight, and a commitment to making every move feel like a step up.